With limited Internet access and great travels going on, opportunities for blogging are rarified, despite having much to tell. I could dedicate a blog entry for each of the trips I’ve taken so far, and I would surely be able to fill them up nicely, but if I do that, I fear I’ll be writing with so much delay that eventually, the content of my entries will have become obsolete, and we’ll be rounding up on Christmas time. So instead, I’ve decided to catch up with my summer adventures so far in a single (somewhat lengthy) entry. Each trip I’ve taken is not a single story, but a collection of a large amount of them, diverse in nature and interest. I’ve decided to select one story to tell for each location I’ve travelled to.
French Riviera
I started my vacation in the town of Antibes, by the French Mediterranean coast, where my grandparents live. As far as my trips go, this was surely the most relaxing and comfortable one, in a very familiar environment. The week went by very tranquilly, perhaps sometimes a little too much so — of course, my grandparents live on a calmer rhythm than I usually like to, so I had to find ways to keep busy. One moment, which really did stand out though, was a talk I had with my grandfather. It was on the evening of the Tisha B’av fast, which my grandparents observe. Sitting out on the terrace of their apartment, my grandfather begins explaining to me what this fast day means, and how it commemorates the destruction of the Temple of Jerusalem in Judaism. As he does so, a seagull flies around in the background and catches his fascination. He interrupts his very serious explanation about religious symbolism to comment with amusement on the bird’s activities and watches it with an innocent spark in his eye. As he resumes the topic of his talk, I can see his eyes keeping track of the seagull over my shoulder, as he wears a mischievous smile on his face. I found this moment to be very endearing, and it also reminded me of my mother (his daughter), who has a similar reaction whenever she sees a swallow. It was the kind of moment, in between a story about my roots and an attitude, which crosses a generation, when I indeed felt connected to my family.
Normandy
After Antibes, I spent a weekend in Deauville with a few friends, this time on the northern coast of France. It is a privileged beach resort, host to the summer homes of many well-placed people. A main attraction is the extensive beach, where we were to spend the majority of our time. On the first day that we arrived, we immediately set out on the sandy shore and dipped in the cold water of the British Channel. While most of us shyly made it waist-in, shrieking in pitches we didn’t know we could reach so high to, my friend Caroline, used to spending her summers on the cold Atlantic shore, lost no time in tackling the long swim separating the beach from the far-away float, signaling the end of the swimming zone. Admiring her endeavor, I decided to follow her out there, assuming it would be a nice stretch. Now, don’t get me wrong, I wasn’t exactly thinking: “if a girl can do it, then surely I can!” but I’ve never known Caroline to be much of an athlete. However, she completely impressed me, as she swam on and on to a buoy that never seemed to get any closer, without looking back once. In fact, it was only once she reached it and gave it a high-five, before heading back, that she realized I had followed her at all. Panting, and quite far behind after some 10 minutes of swim, I was definitely not pulling this off with as much grace and nonchalance as she was. But I did manage to give the buoy my own fist-pump before making the whole way back, with a certain exauhstion but especially pride. As we roamed the beach trying to find where we had originally set our towels, we ended up walking quite a long way only adding to the effort. As we finally rested, Caroline enthusiastically suggested: “All we have left to do now is bike back home and we can call it a triathlon!” Next time, Caroline, next time.
This memory really stands out from the trip, because it was completely improvised, and took me by surprise. I was not only satisfied to complete this challenge and manage to make it all the way to that buoy and back, but I was highly impressed with my friend, who showed me she was capable of doing something I would have never suspected of her and who showed me it was possible for me to do as well. I owe it to her and thank her for it.
England
Next stop on my paper route was England, which I crossed over to with my friend Tim (who was also with me in Normandy) to hike from London to Oxford in four days. This also proved to be an occasion to overcome my physical limits, especially on the third day, when we took on the crazy challenge of walking the last 25 miles (40 km) of the journey by nightfall, so that we could sleep in a hostel (instead of camping out) and be able to enjoy visiting the city of Oxford the next day. While we did manage this feat, this is not the story I want to tell. The memory I would like to bring up took place on the previous night, after the second day of walking. It had been a hard day on the road, where we kept getting lost and moreover, disagreeing about the road to take. I wasn’t having a good time, and as we entered the evening, I made a wish that we could have something happen to us that evening which would make up for the bad day, and which I would later be able to look back upon and think that the trip was worth having been done for if not for anything else. My wish came true as we entered a small village named Frieth, where we decided to stop for the night. Tim and I are both avid travelers and have been inspired by more experienced hikers, who gave up all of their possessions and means, to take on long walks across continents without any money, relying solely on the hospitality of strangers as a means for survival. While we may not have gone that far, we were both very anxious to try asking people for shelter and food, even though it seemed to be something very daring to do. But, considering we had nothing to lose, and that my wish would never come true if I did not at least try, I took it on myself to knock on someone’s door and ask for help. We were greeted by two over excited Labradors, followed by a woman with her hands covered in orange peel. Not expecting our strange request, it took a few moments for her to think the situation over, while visibly caught in the middle of making a nice dinner. A fortunate rainstorm began just at that moment, surely making her take us in enough pity to at least invite us in. After some ponderings and a few pone calls, our host, presenting herself as Clair, had found us a field to camp out in, and told us we would be eating dinner with her family that night.
So, Tim and I ended up being invited to dinner by a British family, and while the food was certainly wonderful, the best part, and the real reason we attempted this experience in the first place was the human contact we got out of the evening and the amazing feeling of meeting the local population, communicating with them for one night, and receiving their incredible generosity. Clair and her husband Rupert were exceptional people, fascinating in conversation, warm and generous in their attitudes and not without a good dose of humor. Our luck kept up with us that night, as their niece Lucy had just arrived moments before we did, and allowed us to share the delicious meal that Clair had prepared for the event — yes, we did feel somewhat guilty for intruding on that, but our hosts reassured us that our arrival was only part of a chain of coming and goings through their home, as Lucy’s parents would be arriving the next day and that in the meanwhile they were also putting a friend up. Indeed, completing our new acquaintances for the evening was Rosemary, their Neo-Zealander friend, an equally charming person to meet. Overall, the whole evening lived up to what we hoped it would be, and gave me faith in this idea of travelling we wanted to do, but had not yet dared to try. An experience to surely try again.
Barcelona
After leaving Paris, where I wrote my previous entry, I headed down to Spain, where I spent the past week with some friends. Barcelona seemed to be a single moment to itself, in a succession of visiting cultural and authentic Spanish locations earlier on in the day, resting on the beach in the later afternoon, before enjoying the vibrant nightlife of Gaudi’s city, until daybreak. It was a crazy and exciting experience, which allowed me to relax and let go of many anxieties I had carried over from the stress of leaving home and moving. The last night of the trip did prove to be a bit more special though. It was my last night in Europe, and also the last time I would see my friends before I come home from school in the winter, so it was emotionally charged — though not as much as when I left Paris. After treating ourselves to nice Spanish-style dinner with tapas and paella, we settled on the docks with some ice-cream and hung out there for a while. My friend Thibault and I went on to have a very meaningful conversation, which was very useful for me, and will be one of those moments I will remember for long I think. We had spent most of the week going out to bars and clubs in the evenings, with a more electric and hyper mood, which is great and really fun, but also more superficial. This last night had more magic and philosophy, which was what I needed before leaving, and so I was very thankful to have it.
By now, I have made it to the US, and am currently making my way through the American West, which I’m touring with my girlfriend and her parents. I’ve only been here for a few days though (after some 22 hours of transit from Barcelona) and so I think it’s too soon to elaborate on my American adventure with enough perspective. Unfortunately, along the way of my travels, both my picture and video camera broke down, and this was not due to misuse or negligence. As a result I don’t have as many visual souvenirs of my trip as I would like to, despite borrowing other people’s cameras, but in fact, my favorite parts of the journey are the stories I get to take home and share, and these are not dependant on any other hard drive than my brain. I hope you have enjoyed this selection of those I’ve collected so far, and will bring you more soon.